You’ve learned how to reflect (R) and how to acknowledge the other person’s emotions (E).
In this video you learn the one-two punch of Affirming (A).
Here is where you affirm the qualities and characteristics you value in the other person.
“I appreciate how you’re ….”
“I admire the way you …”
“I respect you’re …”
And also affirm that you’re hearing the other person accurately.
“Am I getting you so far?”
“Am I missing anything here?”
“I want to make sure I’m getting where you’re coming from. How am I doing so far?”
“Am I on the right track?”
You won’t want to miss the next important step in the model, so be on the lookout to communicate care (C) in creating emotional intimacy.
