Category: All About You

Build Resilience With These Words

Imagine you overslept this morning after a restless night and woke to a late night email alerting you to an early morning meeting. In an effort to get there on time, you get pulled over for speeding and served a costly ticket. How are you feeling? Bad Overwhelmed Annoyed New

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Problem Seeking

You can’t act your way to emotional safety. Safety is an emotion, which means it’s driven by our thoughts. You don’t think your way there by trying to solve the unsolvable.   In the early days of COVID, I made every effort to learn everything available about what I could

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If It’s Not That Bad It’s Not That Good

What does a cave person have to do with your lover? Picture this: your lover is looking deep into your eyes and then leans in close for a passionate embrace. Melting into the moment, you turn your ear anticipating sweet words of love, and this is what you hear… “You

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What To Do When You Are Hurting

Most of us were taught to shut out painful feelings early on. We try to protect ourselves and others by shutting down or disconnecting from our feelings. It’s more acceptable to tell everyone we’re fine, including ourselves, than to acknowledge our struggle. No one teaches us how to process our

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Does What You Think Make You A Good Person

Do you believe what you think makes you a good or bad person? I think this is a fascinating topic and one worth a deeper dive. I invite you to consider the possibility that thoughts don’t inherently have moral value. But before going on, let’s clarify a baseline understanding of

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How To Find Out Why Something Bothers You

Have you ever had a strong negative reaction to something but not sure why it bothers you? Here you’ll learn 5 powerful strategies to solve the mystery. Maybe a friend shared that she’s getting married and you struggled to feel happy for her. Perhaps your mother asked you how work

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Good and Bad Questions

“An unquestioned mind in the world of suffering,” Byron Katie We ask ourselves questions all the time and they can be the catalyst to move us forward or keep us spinning us in circles. Questions help us find and create thoughts. When applied effectively, they’re a powerful tool that supports

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What Is The Most Important Thing You Do?

What would you say is the most important thing you do for You? My answer would be thinking. I’d also posit that the two most important things in life are physical and mental health. I think we’d agree that these are essential to our well-being and, without them, it’s questionable

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